I saw this elderly gentleman dining by himself, with an old picture of
a lady in front of him. I thought maybe I could brighten his day by
talking to him.
As I had assumed, she was his wife.
But I didn't expect such an interesting story. They met when they were
both 17. They dated briefly, then lost contact when he went to war and
her family moved. But he said he thought about her the entire war. After
his return, he decided to look for her. He searched for her for 10
years and never dated anyone. People told him he was crazy, to which he
replied, "I am. Crazy in love." On a trip to California, he went to a
barber shop. He told the barber how he had been searching for a girl for
ten years. The barber went to his phone and called his daughter in. It
was her! She had also been searching for him and never dated either.
He proposed immediately and they were married for 55 years before her
death 5 years ago. He still celebrates her birthday and their
anniversary. He takes her picture with him everywhere and kisses her
goodnight.
Some inspiring things he said;
"I was a very rich man. Not with money, but with love"
"I never had a single argument with my wife, but we had lots of debates"
"People are like candles. At any moment a breeze can blow it out, so enjoy the light while you have it."
"Tell your wife that you love her everyday. And be sure to ask her, have I told you that I love you lately?"
Be sure to talk to the elderly. Especially strangers. You may think
that you will brighten their day, but you may be surprised that they can
actually brighten yours.
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