The Business 9 Women Kept A Secret For Three Decades
Somewhere in West Tennessee, not far from Graceland, nine women
-- or "The 9 Nanas," as they prefer to be called -- gather in the
darkness of night. At 4am they begin their daily routine -- a ritual
that no one, not even their husbands, knew about for 30 years. They have
one mission and one mission only: to create happiness. And it all
begins with baked goods.
“One
of us starts sifting the flour and another washing the eggs,” explained
Nana Mary Ellen, the appointed spokesperson for their secret society.
“And someone else makes sure the pans are all ready. We switch off,
depending on what we feel like doing that day.
“But you make sure to say Nana Pearl is in charge, because she’s the oldest!” she added with a wink and a smile.
Over the next three hours, The 9 Nanas (who all consider
themselves sisters, despite what some of their birth certificates say)
will whip up hundreds of pound cakes, as part of a grand scheme to help
those in need. And then, before anyone gets as much as a glimpse of
them, they’ll disappear back into their daily lives. The only hint that
may remain is the heavenly scent of vanilla, lemon and lime, lingering
in the air.
Even the UPS driver, who picks up hundreds of packages at a
time, has no clue what these women, who range in age from 54 to 72, are
doing. He’s just happy to get a hug and a bag filled with special
treats. What he doesn’t know is that he’s part of their master plan. A
plan that began 35 years ago -- when the “sisters” got together for
their weekly card game -- something their husbands referred to as
“Broads and Bridge.”
“Pearl says it was all her idea,” Mary Ellen teased, “but as I
remember it, we were sitting around reminiscing about MaMaw and PaPaw
and all the different ways they would lend a hand in the community.”
MaMaw and PaPaw are the grandparents who raised four of the women, Mary
Ellen included, when their mother passed away; and they took in Pearl as
their own, when her parents needed some help.
“MaMaw Ruth would read in the paper that someone had died,” Mary
Ellen remembered, “and she’d send off one of her special pound cakes.
She didn’t have to know the family. She just wanted to put a little
smile on their faces. And we started thinking about what we could do to
make a difference like that. What if we had a million dollars? How would
we spend it?
So the ladies began brainstorming.
“One of the sisters suggested that we should all start doing our
own laundry and put the money we saved to good use. I admit, I
protested at first. There’s just something about laundering that I don’t
like. But I was outnumbered! So among the nine of us, we’d put aside
about $400 a month and our husbands never noticed a thing. Their shirts
looked just fine.”
And then the women started listening. They’d eavesdrop -- all
with good intentions, of course -- at the local beauty shop or when they
were picking up groceries. And when they heard about a widow or a
single mom who needed a little help, they’d step in and anonymously pay a
utility bill or buy some new clothes for the children.
“We wanted to help as much as we could,” Mary Ellen said,
“without taking away from our own families, so we became coupon
clippers. And we’d use green stamps. Remember those? We’d use green
stamps and we’d make sure to go to Goldsmith’s department store on
Wednesdays. Every week they’d have a big sale and you could spend $100
and walk away with $700 worth of merchandise.”
The Nanas would find out where the person lived and send a
package with a note that simply said, “Somebody loves you” -- and they’d
be sure to include one of MaMaw Ruth’s special pound cakes.
The more people they helped, the bolder they became.
“We gave new meaning to the term drive-by,” Mary Ellen said with
delight. “We’d drive through low-income neighborhoods and look for
homes that had fans in the window. That told us that the people who
lived there didn’t have air-conditioning. Or we’d see that there were no
lights on at night, which meant there was a good chance their utilities
had been turned off. Then we’d return before the sun came up, like cat
burglars, and drop off a little care package.”
For three decades, the ladies’ good deeds went undetected --
that is, until five years ago, when Mary Ellen’s husband, whom she
lovingly calls “Southern Charmer,” started noticing extra mileage on the
car and large amounts of cash being withdrawn from their savings
account.
“He brought out bank statements and they were highlighted!” Mary
Ellen said, recalling the horror she felt. “I tried to explain that I
had bought some things, but he had this look on his face that I’d never
seen before -- and I realized what he must have been thinking. I called
the sisters and said, 'You all need to get over here right away.'”
So 30 years into their secret mission, the 9 Nanas and their
husbands gathered in Mary Ellen’s living room and the sisters came
clean. They told the husbands about the laundry and the eavesdropping --
even the drive-bys. And that’s where their story gets even better --
because the husbands offered to help.
“They were amazed that we were doing this and even more amazed
that they never knew. We can keep a good secret! All but three of them
are retired now, so sometimes they come with us on our drive-bys. In our
area, all you need is an address to pay someone’s utility bill, so we
keep the men busy jotting down numbers.”
It wasn’t long before the couples decided it was also time to
tell their grown children. And that’s when happiness began to happen in
an even bigger way. The children encouraged their mothers to start
selling MaMaw Ruth’s pound cakes online, so they could raise money to
help even more people. And it wasn’t long before they were receiving
more than 100 orders in a day.
“The first time we saw those orders roll in, we were jumping up
and down,” Mary Ellen said with a laugh. “We were so excited that we did
a ring-around-the-rosie! Then we called all the children and said,
'What do we do next?'"
That’s when the 9 Nanas moved their covert baking operation out
of their homes and into the commercial kitchen of a restaurant owned by
one of their sons, where they can sneak in before sunrise and sneak out
before the staff comes in. They even hired a “happiness coordinator”
(whose code name is “Sunny,” of course). Her identity needs to be a
secret, too, so she can help out with the eavesdropping.
“We swore her to secrecy -- her parents think she works in
marketing. And, really, if you think about it, she is doing public
relations and spends a lot of time looking for people to help at the
supermarket!”
These days, The 9 Nanas are able to take on even bigger
projects, given their online success. Recently they donated more than
$5,000 of pillows and linens and personal care products to a shelter for
survivors of domestic violence. And this August, they’ll celebrate
their second consecutive “Happiness Happens Month” by sending tokens of
their appreciation to one person in every state who has made a
difference in their own community.
And that million dollars they once wished for? They’re almost
there. In the last 35 years, the 9 Nanas have contributed nearly
$900,000 of happiness to their local community.
But that doesn’t mean they’re too busy to continue doing the
little things that make life a bit happier. Sometimes they just pull out
the phone book and send off pound cakes to complete strangers. And if
the Nanas spot someone at the grocery store who appears to need a little
help, it’s not unusual for them to start filling a stranger’s cart.
“Not everyone is as lucky as we were to have MaMaw and PaPaw to
take care of them, to fix all those things that are wrong.
“So this is our way of giving back,” Mary Ellen said. “We want
people to know that someone out there cares enough to do something. We
want to make sure that happiness happens.”
Blessed is the person who sees the need,
recognizes the responsibility,
and actively becomes the answer...
To
learn more about The 9 Nanas and Happiness Happens or to purchase one
of MaMaw Ruth’s special pound cakes, you can visit their website: Happiness-Happens.com
--by Lori Weiss, syndicated from huffingtonpost.com, Jun 29, 2012