"My dear girl, the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be
patient, but most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.
If when we talk, I repeat the same thing a thousand times, don’t interrupt to say: “You said the same thing a minute ago”... Just
listen, please. Try to remember the times when you were little and I
would read the same story night after night until you would fall asleep.
When I don’t want to take a bath, don’t be mad and don’t embarrass me.
Remember when I had to run after you making excuses and trying to get
you to take a shower when you were just a girl?
When you see
how ignorant I am when it comes to new technology, give me the time to
learn and don’t look at me that way... remember, honey, I patiently
taught you how to do many things like eating appropriately, getting
dressed, combing your hair and dealing with life’s issues every day...
the day you see I’m getting old, I ask you to please be patient, but
most of all, try to understand what I’m going through.
If I
occasionally lose track of what we’re talking about, give me the time to
remember, and if I can’t, don’t be nervous, impatient or arrogant. Just
know in your heart that the most important thing for me is to be with
you.
And when my old, tired legs don’t let me move as quickly
as before, give me your hand the same way that I offered mine to you
when you first walked.
When those days come, don’t feel sad... just be with me, and understand me while I get to the end of my life with love.
I’ll cherish and thank you for the gift of time and joy we shared. With
a big smile and the huge love I’ve always had for you, I just want to
say, I love you... my darling daughter."
17 hours ago
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